HELP! im a young muslim girl going through a very difficult time of my life with my family and my husband..?

As a word of encouragement-it is really brave of you to reach out to complete strangers for help in this matter. I commend you. You have just one life in this world. The politics of your countries or boarders shouldn't influnce love. You can't help who fall in love with. For instance, the man I'm with, I never fell out of love with him after being apart over 20 years. Our families don't get it. We don't get it half the time. Some times love just happens. The test of true love is how you weather the storm of opposition. Your question was how should i deal with this. I understand family preasure can be overwelming but if you feel in your heart that God has brought you two together then that is enough. The will of God and not your family's prejudice is what's important ultimately. All of you answer to God. Approach this with humility and sincerity. Don't let all this stress tear your love apart. I don't know you but want you to be happy.