Why am I getting thumbs down? I am all for WOMEN, but we are leaving men behind?

We are all so worried about WOMEN and our rights and what we DESERVE...what about what we deserve to give, love, cherish.....I keep getting thumbs down for sympathizing with men, and keeping fellow women to standards. GASP...women need to have a set of values...what the heck is wrong with expecting women to make SMART choices and believe in their own POWER to make things happen. I want it to happen, I have the power to make it so...don't you believe that is true, or are you a victim of your cirstances?